Lately, I've been finding it harder and harder to get motivated - to do anything. I've been very fortunate in my life that depression has never found me (but it might be lurking around the corner now). It's a growing problem in the US. I'm sure in part to the economy, unemployment, Washington not able to agree on anything, more disasters, etc, etc.
Because of my status of unemployed, I don't really have a schedule anymore -- and I find it a bit disturbing. Will I end up being one of those many millions of Americans still unemployed after a year? Gosh, I sure hope not. I'm a smart person, experienced, quick learner, talented problem solver, but why no phone calls? I can't honestly say that I have been beating the pavement. I've actually been kinda slack at looking for a job. I've spend hours on my resume, even more on my cover letters, and still when I look at how many jobs I've applied to - I'm surprised. I submitted many to my "chosen" employer, but they haven't reached out yet. It's a different world out there than it used to be. I'm not used to working hard at finding a job. I've had four jobs in my life and four interviews. I did have one interview back in June - I was actually shocked that I got one. Obviously I wasn't right for the job - it was a stretch position, but I was still hopeful. After all, each interview I've had so far always landed me a job.
Anyway, back to my original point. What do you do when you really have nothing to do to motivate you to get moving? I am motivated to get the right job (the one I choose), but the "right" job doesn't come along that often. I am trying to focus on my relationship to God, because I believe he will help me in this search. But I get scared sometimes - how long can I wait? Will God really help me (is he speaking to my ideal employer on my behalf)? I believe, but life can get you down sometimes and definitely cause you to doubt everything.
I'm trying to keep busy every day, but find myself making excuses not to leave the house. I hate to clean, so that's not really an option to keep me busy. Although I still have junk in the basement to toss out -- that usually perks me up.
I'm actually thinking about volunteering, so I have to be responsible for something. Just being a wife and looking for a job isn't all that fulfilling.
So, what do you recommend? Last night I made a list to keep me on track - but it's still just a list - I have to do something with it. Need help with motivation, inspiration, guidance to give each day a purpose to get busy.
Hey Barb,
ReplyDeleteI think it would be hard for any of us to stay on track. But I do think volunteering is a great idea. You never know who it will put you in contact and what can come from doing that. It always feels great to give back!!
volunteering is one way to get out there. I have always been a volunteer - Big Sister, Habitat for Humaity, Empty Bowls etc... MOtivation comes from within, so if you are waiting for that sweet position and not willing to compromise, that could be problematic in this economy. Taking a job that may lead to bigger and better should never be dismissed. YOur guidance is your God: each day, be the best of you. Your God will walk with you, he will shield you, and he will speak with you not at you. When you take that first step out side the house, he will be with you. Honestly, I would go to the pound. The love you have for animals - dogs - will remind you of the worth of your love. A job does not define you; you are my hero!
ReplyDeleteAgain, I feel i over stepped my boundaries here, but I do believe your worth is beyond your comprehension - since you have touched my life. I am too scared to leave my job - i love teaching, but the system is so dysfunctional. you left. NOw revel is honesty - call and show up at any office you want a job. Don't accept NO. If you want a company, go to them so they see your face. I know I would love to see your face.